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You know hiding isn’t the answer.
Fitting in isn’t the answer.
Grinding away at the external validation hamster-wheel isn’t the answer.
Exhausting yourself trying to be someone you’re not isn’t the answer.
You’re hiding the deepest feelings of self-doubt … questioning your worth, and overcompensating in your leadership role.
You think you may have imposter syndrome … but deep inside you sense there’s something more.
What if I told you that you’re dealing with chronic shame formed in childhood and it’s keeping you from being the powerful and soulful leader you’re meant to be?
With childhood shame cycles, there’s patterns and beliefs that result from childhood wounding around shame and neglect.
They’re so impactful they have the ability to keep you in an endless loop of not feeling good enough..
In addition, that loop creates a never ending search for the place where you feel aligned – striving to find your purpose … but you never really get there because that’s not what your struggle is about.
Life can often feel like you’re running on a treadmill backwards with a blindfold on.
You’re in a high-level role.
You’re managing all the nuances of the job, you’re well respected, but inside it feels like a battle with the critic in your head and the pit in your stomach.
As long as you carry the core learned beliefs of childhood shame that tells you you’re not good enough, you’ll carry around a deep feeling of irrational guilt for who you are and how you show up as a leader, and in the world.
You’ll continue to believe you have to be someone you’re not in order to succeed.
With childhood shame cycles operating in the background, you view yourself and the world through a filter that’s colored with the a false narrative – you can’t see what’s actually true.
No job opportunity, no team, no culture will inspire you to step up as yourself and truly lead because deep down, leading doesn’t feel safe and you’re not confident with who you are.
This is what’s actually going on with you. It’s not imposter syndrome.
It’s the result of successive childhood wounding centered around shame, neglect and not receiving the love you needed, which creates a, “there’s something wrong with me” feeling.
You think you have imposter syndrome. You don’t.
And the approach people take to resolve imposter syndrome won’t completely resolve the deeper core issues of childhood shame cycles.
The deeper unseen blocks and core wounds still need to be addressed.
All the shit I came to you with is GONE. All the work we’ve done – I know it’s gone, but once you start realizing that you’re not responding or reacting the same way that you used to, it’s like, Oh, It’s not there anymore. I worked on all this stuff before, but it wasn’t fully gone, I feel so good.
If you’re experiencing any of these challenges, keep reading, we could be a good fit to work together:
- Vicious inner dialogue on exhaustive repeat.
- Mild to paralyzing performance anxiety.
- Fear of letting go – over controlling.
- Holding yourself to impossible standards – trying to do everything perfectly.
- Fearing the other shoe will drop if you stop managing ALL THE THINGS.
- Unmanageable stress & unwanted outbursts with your partner or kids.
- An inner knowing that it should be easier.
- Feeling isolated – there’s no one to ask for guidance or direction that feels aligned.
- Childhood experiences that you know need healing.
These things can feel paralyzing in your body.
And every one of them is solvable!
You can do it all differently.
You can show up as yourself, without apology.
That’s where I come in.
If you are truly ready to embark on a self-actualization journey, do not think twice. Kelli’s coaching is designed to enable her clients to become aware of and reliant on their own internal guidance, restore their self-empowerment and become self-sufficient in the process. You’ll close each session feeling uplifted and with a sense of resolution for the challenges you have faced leading up to the session.
If you are looking for a partner to help you build your confidence or clear any blocks you have to achieving your dreams, Kelli can help you find your way!
I work privately with women in management and executive roles to finally free them from the chronic self-worth issues holding them back.
In my research, I’ve discovered that what’s keeping soulful, empathic women from thriving in the high-stakes roles they were born to succeed in isn’t “imposter syndrome”: it’s childhood shame cycles – a confidence-destroying feeling of never being enough.
Through my signature method, I help women confidently stay in their roles and get the recognition (and fulfillment), they deserve. My clients feel more like themselves than ever, while having the impact they’re meant to have.
I’ve been exactly where you are – doubting my worth, second guessing decisions in my leadership role, wondering what’s wrong with me.
I’m intimate with the deeper reasons it feels like you want to blow your life up and start over
… like you took a wrong turn somewhere and this can’t possibly be what you worked so hard for.
I understand this from the inside out. I’ve resolved it for myself and for clients.
My background is varied. I’ve successfully run businesses with annual revenue ranging from $250K to $34M. I’ve built two separate businesses from the ground up and co-owned a third.
I’ve worked privately with established founders of multi-million dollar companies to managers and executives at some of the top companies around the world, including Deloitte, AIG, Healthline, Hermes Financial Management, Ernst & Young and Cali’flour Foods, to name a few.
I combine my background in business and management with years of self-development and spiritual work to help you break through to the confident, unshakable, ALIGNED place you desire to be.
I’m the author of two books – The Destiny Roadmap and The Relationship Roadmap. I have decades of experience in management, entrepreneurship, coaching and leadership.
I have a vast array of tools to support you to break through any blocks that are keeping you from showing up as your true self.
SO WHAT NEEDS TO CHANGE?
Let me say this, there’s nothing wrong with you!
You are not something that needs to be fixed.
Right now you’re stuck in some habits, old stories and untrue beliefs about who you are and what it means to succeed.
These are working against your true desires. That’s it.
I approach these challenges by focusing on what’s happening in your body.
That’s where we identify and free you from the baggage you can’t see. The stuff that’s zapping your energy and holding you back when you really want to be making an IMPACT.
The divide between where you are and where you want to be isn’t as wide as your mind tells you it is.
When you can free yourself from what’s holding you back, you feel more
confident and capable.
You stop overcompensating and questioning yourself, you make decisions with ease.
What I have found working with the women who come to me is that:
no matter where they graduated from,
how much money they’re making,
what their title is,
how hard they’ve worked to get where they are,
there’s a level of success that reveals core wounds that perpetuate a story that they’re not good enough.
That they have to be someone they’re not in order to succeed.
They end up pushing themselves through everything, because that’s how they’ve learned to get ahead, but that’s a clear path to burnout.
And that’s where we focus!
Working with Kelli is an investment in yourself. I’ve learned so much about myself, in a way that allows me to acknowledge and release any “issues”, always moving forward. I’ve learned how to get out of my own way, so to speak, removing those invisible barriers that have been holding me back. I’ve also learned how to tap into and trust my inner guidance to understand what I need, and where I need to take action.”
Kelli has helped me to see myself more clearly, recognize self sabotage (and showed me tools to subvert it), and discover my big juicy dream – which I hadn’t even considered previously.
I am now taking steps towards making that previously unknown dream a reality.
What does it look like to work with me?
I work privately with women in management and executive roles to finally free them from the chronic self-worth issues holding them back.
My clients get promoted, receive multi-year retention bonuses & recognition awards, and step into larger roles with ease. They successfully grow their businesses/careers feeling aligned, confident and free from self-doubt and depletion.
The work we do has unlimited potential for your happiness and growth; spiritually, professionally and personally. This is where you stop your fight for approval, and instead … allow your spirit to lead the way.
These high touch offers are customized to your individual needs.
Through my signature method and the coaching process, you’ll bring your whole self to your role and feel confident and aligned with who you are.
Work stops depleting your very being, and becomes a thing that gives your life deep meaning and purpose.
Clear Unconscious Blocks
I take my clients through a transformative journey that frees them from the blocks standing in the way of their authenticity, confidence and ease.
These are the core reasons you haven’t been able to show up as yourself, without apology, and feel comfortable in your leadership role.
The things you can’t see, but you can definitely feel.
Master Your Energy
The work is powerful, and deep. It helps guide you back to yourself through inner mastery, creating the change you desire from the inside out.
With this approach, every area of your life can shift with ease.
You’ll connect with who you are and discover what truly matters in your heart and soul.
Support via Text or Email
You’ll also have the comfort of knowing you have someone at your fingertips who can help you with an instant solution and support when needed.
This is a true partnership that work with you.
In addition to the deep soul work, you’ll have support for high-level decisions, career guidance and team dynamics.
Together we break through your cycles of self-doubt, and the unhelpful patterns and habits that are keeping you locked in a spiraling dynamic of belief that:
- You have to be someone you’re not in order to succeed.
- You need to say yes to everything or risk disappointing someone.
- You have to continue to prove yourself time and again.
- You need to over prepare and over perform because you’re not doing enough.
- The other shoe is going to drop and it will all come crashing down at some point.
It’s time to heal the childhood shame cycles and become the woman who loves her work and life.
What I Hear from Clients….
I’m proud of how I said it, it was VERY me!
I had a 600 person presentation and thought nothing of it!
I feel more like myself than I ever have.
I feel like a different person. I’ve stopped owning other people’s feelings.
I have no fear of talking and speaking my mind.
The whole story that used to run – it doesn’t even happen anymore.
I don’t know that I ever turned off before we first started this.
If you’re tired of continually facing inner battles and feeling like you have to be someone you’re not in order to get ahead, let’s hop on a brief call where I can share more about what I do.
We’ll do a quick dive into the challenges you’re facing and what some next steps might be.
I talk with everyone personally.
You can ask questions, get clarity on where you are and I’ll share exactly how I work with clients.
There’s no pressure at all and no obligation to work with me. We’ll both know if it’s a fit.
You’ll leave the call with a clear understanding about your leadership role and WHY you feel the way you do. I’ll give you some recommendations for how to move forward and if we’re not a match to work together, I’ll recommend someone who is.
Before you fully deplete yourself, burnout and quit, make sure you know what’s truly going on, It helps to have clarity and insight from someone who guides clients through this and has been there.
I know from experience that quitting isn’t always the answer and whatever inner challenges you don’t deal with now, will go with you.
Why not take the time to see how it can all feel differently?
How possible it is to get your focus, passion and energy back.
Schedule some time below, I’d love to hear from you.
Please know, when you work with me a portion of my profits throughout the year go to support BLM, BIPOC + LGBTQ causes/businesses, Tree Sisters, Save the Redwoods League, NRDC, Taylor Hood Farms, NAACP and more. If you’re not aligned with this we’re not a fit to work together.
More Client Stories
I’ll preface by saying this: Think of Kelli as a penny in a football field that is covered in a bed of counterfeit pennies. If you managed to find her, congratulations. Seriously.
Here is my story: I LOVE my job but being a female executive in the corporate world is not an easy task, especially as an intuitive empath. I’ve had many (all male) mentors throughout my decade-long career and while they all imparted unique facets of wisdom, I could not find anyone that saw me for who I truly was. I followed the conventional guidance and scheduled lunches / networking calls with female partners within our firm, but still no connection.
I set an intention to find a mentor that understood the world of corporate leadership and knew how to weave in spirituality to help bring forth the feminine yet empowered leader I knew myself (deep within) to be. The universe brought me Kelli through a series of synchronicities, at just the right time in my life and career. We have worked together since Mar ’19 and I still experience light bulb moments during our calls. In this short time-span, I’ve become night and day different – I’m lighter, happier, more confident at work and more trusting in myself and the universe. Work is better than ever – I have more work-life balance and was rated as a top performer this year. That said, I’m not done yet and very much look forward to continue growing with Kelli.
Working with Kelli has totally changed my life—and we’re not done yet! I connected with her at a time when I was frustrated with my career, super burnt out, and deeply unfulfilled. Through her wisdom, patience, humor, and spiritual guidance, I’ve learned to shift my perspective on things (and also my behavior) in ways that reach well beyond my work.
I’m grateful to be feeling so much more peaceful, grounded, and confident that I’m on the right path. Kelli has been like a guardian angel to me, and working with her has been one of the best decisions I’ve ever made.
Working with Kelli is the best decision I could have made. Ever. From the first time we got on a call, everything just clicked. She is one of the most honest, heart felt, encouraging, and knowledgeable people I know.
Before working with her I had no idea what I wanted to become, let alone even do with my life. She gave me the courage I needed to make sometimes hard decisions that have rocked my world for the better. She was there with me every step of the way and eased any discomfort/hesitations I could have had.
Not only was I able to start my business, but I even got clients within a few weeks. The massive changes I’ve made and transformation I’ve gone through is beyond astonishing. I have recommended her to friends and will continue to give her the recognition she deserves.
When I reached the limits of my spiritual skills and tools, Kelli was waiting patiently to take my hand and guide me gently across the next bridge to wholeness.
She is the Queen of the Clear Heart Path and a perfect fit for this bookish, recovering control freak who has decades of study and practice in metaphysics.
I transcended to levels I thought were reserved for other people when I worked with Kelli. She taught me how to receive love at a whole new level.
Kelli helped me to reprogram with the way I approach my day, my challenges, my desires and my life. I’ve always been an outcome based, goal oriented person, and usually found confusing and sloppy ways to get there, if I ever really got there!
I am so thankful that I said YES to working with her. The work we did really transformed my business and even more so changed my inner landscape. I felt a sense of renewal, hope and excitement with the tools I gained in my work with Kelli. Kelli has a gift to share with all of us, I am grateful she’s part of my life and my journey! Thank you Kelli, from the center of my heart!
I went to Kelli feeling lost, unsure and defeated, she asked all of the right questions and led me on a tremendous growth journey. Through the work, I learned tools and daily practices that I will continue to use throughout my life. It not only gave me new insight about myself, it helped me feel empowered, and grounded in a way I’ve never felt before.
I now have direction in where I’m going and the courage to start my own business. I am extremely grateful for the freedom I’ve gained and soul growth I’ve experienced through this program. Working with Kelli has put me on a path towards, self-love, personal growth, financial success and the freedom to be myself. I cannot thank Kelli enough for her guidance and compassion through this journey.
Working with Kelli helped me to find myself. I learned to value and trust what I already intuitively know.
She provided gentle, loving support and guidance without any judgement. She asked the hard questions and held the space for me to find and answer them for myself. The time I invested with Kelli has radically changed my life. I never imagined in ten months that I would be out of my relationship, sell my house, buy a home in a new town, and grow my business all at the same time!
Kelli has become more than an intuitive guide and mentor. She has become a dear friend who I am honored to know and love. Thank you, Kelli for giving me my life back!